Holly Hill

Bio

Want to know the new sexiquette? How to risk manage your love? I'm a bestselling author and blogger with humor of some repute. More notorious than famous. I live by my motto, 'People have as much right to have sex as they have a right not to have sex'. My phrase ‘negotiated infidelity’ became a household term after guest appearances on the Larry King Show, 60 Minutes and Dr Phil, but I recently retracted the notion, saying it emasculates men and makes women feel insecure. After a 4 year 'road test' with my then partner, Dino, and interviewing hundreds of couples, I believe any arranged infidelity must be the "exception and not the expectation" and I now call it NEGOTIATED FIDELITY instead. NEGOTIATED FIDELITY is about defining a couple's own unique sexual boundaries to risk manage their ongoing relationship and is part of my notion of having UNCONDITIONED LOVE. Unlike traditional concepts of love, unconditioned love also recognizes our hardwired aspects, such as chemistry, gender differences, sexuality, pathology, inherited fetishes and hormones. I believe love and relationships are currently all wishful thinking and no science. If we don't change the recipe, the end result will continue to have even chances of failure. I’m all about helping couples grow old together. Blog RSS feed at http://www.hollyhill.net.au/rss.xml